The ABC of Husband Pleasing

The ABC of Husband Pleasing

Three Itty bitty easy peasy things women can do to make their man happy!

By Dr. Ronald D. S. Ross

A: Appreciate – tell him “Thank you for washing my car! I love it when you do that.”

“Thank you for working so hard to provide for us.”

“Thank you for taking care of the kids – I know how hard that is for you to do.”

Thank him in front of other people – especially your children and parents.

“Thank you” is one of the first things we teach our children to say but one of the last things we think to say to our mates.

B: Brag – This is taking appreciation one step further. Men need affirmations. Tell them they are good, they are strong; they are smart, they are heroic.

All men want to be heroes. Ask any little kid what he wants to be when he grows up, and many of them will say, FIREMAN or POLICEMAN. No kid ever says, “I want to grow up and be a real nice man.”

So make him feel like a hero, and he will be your hero. Make him feel like Superman. When I was a kid, I watched “Davey Crockett the King of the Wild Frontier.” Do you think I would have watched it if the name of the show was “Flacid Fred of the Flower Fields.?”

Snuggle up to his arm and  whisper in his ear, “I believe in you.”

“Whatever you put your mind to you can do it.”

“Of course you deserved that raise!”

Brag on him in front of other people – especially your children.

Call him to his highest self.

C: Charm – Charm him, woo him, look lovely for him, play with him, have fun with him, laugh with him. That’s what you did with him when you were courting. Do it again.

• "I can't help but blush around you."
• "You always know how to make me smile."
• "I respond to you on such a deep level."
• "I feel like I can accomplish so much more in my life because I have you as a safety net. I always feel supported by you, and it means so much to me."
• "Your eyes are so captivating; I could get lost in them forever."
• "I've never felt more safe and comfortable around any other person. I love being in your presence."
• "I've never been more turned on by anyone. You make me weak in the knees so often."
• "You are the funniest guy I know."

This is how you spoke to each other when you were courting. Why does it have to stop? In a great marriage, courtship never ceases.

The rule is this: Whenever he does something you want him to do over and over again, tell him thanks, tell him how great a job he did, and tell him he’s your hero for doing it.

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