50 / 50 Marriage Equals 100% Failure

A marriage based on a fifty/fifty arrangement is headed for disaster, asserts Dr. Ronald D. S. Ross in this 9-minute podcast! 





If marriage were a business arrangement, then such a process just might work.  But it’s not.  Nor would we want it to be.  A business contract is a cold impersonal agreement made with the presumption that each party might fail to fulfill his responsibilities if not for a legally binding pact.  It is a loveless pledge which bears no resemblance to the covenant made between two people who have vowed to “have and to hold” through every trial of life.  

If a couple endeavors to found a marriage upon such terms, it will be a bitter ordeal, and they will seek to end it long before their fulfillment of the vow “til death do us part.” 

The podcast is approximately 9 minutes. For more, visit www.HeartfeltMarriage.com

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